Ejercicio Text A - 1 · Inglés PAU Murcia Ordinaria 2023

TEXT A

Taking a break in a relationship refers to what is typically meant to be a temporary separation. When your relationship feels like it’s going nowhere or you can’t quite figure out how to move forward, a break might seem like a great way to press pause while you figure out what comes next.

The reasons for taking a break can vary, but the goal in mind is often to come back to the relationship with a renewed sense of commitment and passion. But is taking a break something that can help your relationship in the long run, or will it break your relationship altogether? The reality is that every couple is different, and all relationships will go through periods that can be tough to manage. For some couples, it may be normal for the relationship to swing back and forth between an “on-again, off-again” situation. For others, a temporary break can sometimes turn into a permanent split.

If you decide that a break is the best option for your relationship, there are some steps you should take beforehand.

(1) Establish ground rules. Ground rules typically focus on topics such as how much contact you will have with each other as well as with other people (for example, romantically). The goal of these rules is to help make the break successful, minimize any damage to your relationship, and allow you to continue your responsibilities (including in terms of child-care if you have kids together). You both need to establish what is acceptable behavior during this time. Is it ok to date other people? You need to decide whether or not being on break means that you are single and so you are free to see other people while you're on break.

(2) Set a time limit. How long should a break in a relationship last? The length of a break depends on your relationship and the reasons you're doing it. Make sure that you give yourself enough time to adjust to being apart and to focus on your feelings during this time. Also, make sure that you lean on the other supportive people in your life during your time apart. It is important to stay connected to the other people in your life, especially those that support your goals for the break.

1. Read the text and decide whether statements 1.1 to 1.4 are true or false. Then, find a text fragment which confirms your answer in either case. Write “TRUE” or “FALSE” plus the fragment (one or two lines maximum) on your answer sheet. [Score: 4 items x 0.5 marks = 2 marks]

E.g.: Taking a break in a relationship means that partners separate for some time. TRUE. Evidence: Taking a break in a relationship refers to what is typically meant to be a temporary separation.

1.1.

Usually, couples who take a time out of their relationship do so to improve it, not to end it.

TRUE

FALSE

1.2.

Some couples are used to breaking up temporarily, that is, taking a break and later continuing with their relationship.

TRUE

FALSE

1.3.

A ground rule couples should establish is not dating other people during the break.

TRUE

FALSE

1.4.

Relationship breaks should last as long as partners need to get used to not being together and concentrate on their own feelings.

TRUE

FALSE